Thursday, February 12, 2009

Luck!

moody.

Have you ever think when our luck will be gone? like one fine day you have used up all of your luck. or your luck is never replenish after like you have used up for the past 10 years? Have you wonder why luck come and go like singapore MRT? sometimes you can get real lucky in a day and everything went so smooth sailing but some days you can forget about it like mahjong, getting a bad hand and hopes that particular rounds ends quickly.

i will miss my SW classmates and i think i will miss them badly.

  • the pretty Azi,
  • the muai thai master mr Apachai, Jackson
  • the ms. gf number 1, TWT
  • the funny, Zul
  • the funny but not funny,Tang en
  • the everything also want and yong chun yuan, Kenneth
  • the sleep round the corner, Gab
  • the religious, Rach
  • the going to be father, Kenny
  • the stress man, Wei teck
  • the babe, Denise
  • the wordy, James
  • the sprinter, Daryl
  • the mahjong queen, Doris
  • the cool, Eunice
  • the shaker, Farhan
  • the speedy, Raymond
  • the lifeguard, Huai xin
  • the theories, Andy
  • the not so tall man, firdauz
  • the tatooist, Charmain
  • the actress, Beiyi
  • the biker, Khai
  • the virgin, Razean
  • the defender, Bing
  • the mother, Isa

i think thats about it? and of course the best lecturer Mr. Lionel Teo, the big show Mr. Wong and the counseller Ms. Prema. you bet i will miss them..

You dont have to win everytime

Ultracompetitive people, who always need to win, end up enjoying things less. If they lose they are very disappointed, and if they win it's what they expected would happen anyway.

Richard was running for reelection as president in 1972. He directed his campaign staff to take all avaliable measures to win as many votes as possible. Most famous, of course, were the break-ins they staged at Democratic Party headquaters in the Watergate building in order to plant bugging devices. But staff workers also engaged in an endless series of what Richard himself labeled 'dirty tricks.' They would call up pizza par;ors and order a hundred pizzas to be delivered to the office of an opposition candidate. They would hand out phony fliers telling people that an opponent's rally had been canceled. They would call meeting halls and cancel reservations opponents had made for events. Why did they do these things? Richard was obsessed with winning - at all cost.

The great irony was that Richard was winning anyway and didnt need any of these tricks. But his inability to deal with the possibility of losing caused him to pursue these extreme methods and ultimately cost him the prize that he had so desperately pursued.

Competitiveness can preclude life satisfaction because no accomplishment can prove sufficient, and failures are particularly devastating. Ultracompetitive people rate their success with lower marks than some people rate their failures.

Thurman 1981.

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